Understanding the unmet needs driving the conflict between parent and child can be a powerful tool for resolution. Instead of focusing on the specific behaviors that are causing the conflict, try to look beneath the surface and identify the needs that are not being met for both you and your child.
For example, if your teenager is constantly arguing with you about their curfew, their need for freedom might be clashing with your need for their safety and well-being. By acknowledging and validating both sets of needs and finding creative ways to meet both of these needs, you can create a more collaborative and understanding environment for resolving the conflict.
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